I did something this
morning that falls into the category of ‘seemed like a good idea at the time’
but which upon reflection (or more accurately, upon understanding reality) falls into the category of “you dumb mother-fucker”. Put another way, I unleashed Plaxo on all my
contacts this morning as I calmly sipped my first cup of coffee sitting comfortably in my pajamas at my kitchen island - oblivious to the hell I was setting free.
I’ve been waiting years to do
this, but something always held me back. I finally broke down and decided that I really did need to clean up my
contact database (I keep a lot of contacts and its helpful to know what’s up to
date and what’s not). So if you are in
my contacts and I have your valid e-mail address, this morning you received a cheerful note from
me asking you to update your information.
THIS WAS NOT A GOOD IDEA.
While I got some useful information back, there were some second order effects that I had not thought
about. Here’s a few:
1) I
basically just spammed my entire contact list. I wasn’t really thinking about this as spam at the time, but that’s
essentially what it was
2) I
got several hundred e-mails from Plaxo itself, clogging my inbox as people
updated their information (fortunately Plaxo lists people in groups, so one
notice would have 20 or 30 updates announcements in it - so I suppose it could have been even worse).
3) I
got a bunch of e-mails from people telling me they hate Plaxo (mostly because
they don’t trust it) and then giving me their contact information in e-mail
form (which I had to enter manually – pretty much what I was trying to avoid).
4) Plaxo
errantly sent some update requests to a few mailing lists that I’m on (and have
permission to send to) – that was a bit embarrassing.
5) I
reached out and touched a lot of contacts at one time, which resulted in a lot
of people reaching out and touching me – I now have about 30 ‘catch-up’
lunches/coffee/meetings scheduled over the next month as a result (don’t get me
wrong – I’m happy to catch up with these people – just not all at once)
6) I
have a long list of contacts that couldn’t be reached. While this is what I was looking for when I
set out on my Plaxo mission this morning, seeing them all listed out makes me
wonder exactly what I though I was planning on doing with all this information
in the first place (perhaps ignorance really is bliss)
What I should have done was
install the program and not sent out the update request (Plaxo has a reasonably
nice way to manage your contacts as e-mails come in) – this would have gotten me
about 98% of what I now realize I was looking for without any of the annoyance.
To everyone I Plaxo’d today –
sorry.
I’m an idiot.
I won’t do it again.
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